My Super Sweet 16 (MTV)

At the moment, my 3 best friends are the only ones guaranteed to come to the party. I'm keeping it rather small. My problem is my mom's best friend's daughter. She has had a pretty rough life, and as a result is kinda immature and annoying. Because of my mother's friendship with her mom, I'm around her quite a lot. She considers me one of her best friends; I don't hold her in as high a position. She has grown up a lot in the last few months, but I'm still not super fond of her. My problem is that some people she can't stand are friends of mine. I want them there, but I can't really get away with not having her there, and I'd like to avoid drama. Also, she has different ideas of fun then I do. I don't want to deal with complaining, but I refuse to cater my party to only what she wants.

also, will I seem like a present-hungry snob if I invite someone who was a good friend in the past who I'm not as close too anymore? I'd really like to have her there.

Well ask yourself this, would you regret the dissension more i if you invited her or for not inviting her? If you feel guilty about leaving her out then you should probably invite her. It doesn't matter who she likes and who she doesn't like, its your party make the best of it and make it what you want. You should be able to have who you want there without worrying about how anyone else feels, after all its your night. If it helps any you should probably keep her and the people she doesn't like far away from another (( if its that bad )) and only have them close when they have to be. Unless she's clingy, then you might have a problem. But if you really want her to come explain to her before hand that there will be some people she doesn't like there and that she needs to behave or at least act maturely, that way when she shows up she's not angry and surprised.

No, you won't seem like a present hungry snob. If you really want her there tell it to her, no harm no foul. It would be a chance to get close to her again so why miss out on it?

Hoped this helped a little >.<

If you don't want to invite her don't and explain it in a way that won't hurt her feelings. Do something smaller with her afterwords is it's important to keep on good terms and that way you can avoid the drama.